"Thanks for the serving bowl!"

By Guest Blogger: OneWed.com

You want to be polite. You want to write your thank you note in a timely manner, but the fact is that after the fifth serving bowl, you’re kind of out of personal ways to say thanks.

Here are some quick tips for writing a good thank you note:

1.    Keep a list of the gifts – No really, there are people who don’t know that you need to write down every gift and its giver in one place, then cross them off after you’ve written the note.

2.    Space them out – Do a few thank you notes each day, and you won’t get writer’s block and the task won’t take over your life.

3.    Start early – Don’t wait until after the wedding. If you get a gift now, say thanks now.

4.    Buy stamps and return address labels – Not being able to mail the notes right away will just make the task seem bigger.

As to the note itself, keep it short and simple. Mention the gift, mention how happy you are the giver came to the wedding (or sad that they couldn’t make it), mention how much it means to you that they thought enough of you to give you a gift. If the gift is cash call it “your generous gift” and consider mentioning something you might put the cash towards.

Sound good? You’re welcome!

By Guest Blogger: OneWed.com

“But why do we have to create a wedding registry when what we really want is money?” It’s a frequently asked question on OneWed’s advice column. There’s a two-part answer:

1.    Just because you want money, doesn’t mean that’s what you’re going to get. A lot of people do not like giving money as a present, so it’s better to tell them what you want, then to have them guess at it.

2.    Sometimes, gifts are meaningful. If you get money, I’m sure you’ll spend it wisely. You’ll pay for your wedding, your honeymoon, maybe even put a little in savings. Or, maybe you’ll pay some bills with it. But when you look at your honeymoon photos will you really remember who helped pay for that experience? Sometimes a gift can be meaningful. You probably won’t remember who gave you every last towel, glass, or dish, but you’ll be amazed that sometimes you’ll look at a vase, or even a glass or dish and remember that it came from a friend you haven’t talked to in a while, or a loved one no longer with you.

In all likelihood, you will be given money as a gift. I seriously doubt that there’s ever been a bride or groom who hasn’t been given money. But, don’t overlook the value of a few well-chosen gifts as well.

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In the wise words of Tim “The Tool Man” Taylor, there’s nothing wrong with a little “more power” or with doing things “the man way.”

AAAAOOOGGGHHH (or whatever that sound he always made was)

But, does doing things the “man way” end on the wedding day? Many grooms say that their #1 fear associated with marriage is that they’re going to become “domesticated sissies” (their words, not ours). Is this a legit fear? Will grooms be forced to put their buffers, sanders, and grinders into storage and learn how to knit? For you future grooms reading this – rest assured. Your manly days are not over. We’ve got one very important phrase for you to get used to: Honey-Do List.

Not familiar with the honey-do list? Here’s a sample:

• - Clean the gutters
• - Stain the new bookshelf
• - Install the new ceiling fan in the spare bedroom
• - Clean up the empty beer cans scattered throughout the backyard (from when you last mowed the lawn)

As you can imagine, this list never stops growing. We recommend getting prepared for these duties by planning a home improvement wedding shower so you won’t be attacking this honey-do list empty handed. You can even create a guy-friendly wedding registry to fill in the gaps in your tool collection. Some popular gifts at home improvement showers are drills, saws, wet dry vacs, and power paint equipment. Oftentimes, groups of friends or family will go in together on tool sets and tool storage chests.

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Any great home improvement shower stories or suggestions out there? Let’s hear ‘em! Leave a comment below.