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Going Stag: Stephen Stagliano’s Wedding [Part 2]

Tuesday, January 10th, 2012

Today brings a conclusion to Going Stag: our two-day look at life, weddings and marriage via a conversation between Earl Anderson (Mr. Frostings) and Stephen Stagliano. If you haven’t done so yet, check out part 1. Photos are courtesy of Callaway Gable, please do not steal/crop!

Mr. Frostings: Having talked with DeAnna throughout the process, I was surprised how calm she was.  Your support obviously was a big help. Your groomsmen put on a great show for the reception. I laughed until I cried. How did that come about?

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Stephen Stagliano: Hahahaha! Yes they did! In my humbled and biased opinion, I believe I had the best groomsmen in the history of weddings! The dance actually came about from a high school tradition that my brother and I were involved in US Funk Mob. As the last act of  of our high school’s talent show, a group of upper-classmen performed this kind of dance for over 20 years. The group starts out wearing the same baggy track suit with everyone having specific costumes on underneath. The act opens with a group dance, but two or three members duck out in the middle to change in to their costumes. When the music changes, the two come back out to perform their dance (typically always something funny…ballerinas, Mario bros, tap dance etc.) while the rest of the group does something small together in the background. Then the two join back in with the group for another group dance and two more shuffle out to go change and start the process again.  For years it blew the roof off every night so Michael and I decided to incorporate it in my wedding….mind bomb…BOOM.

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MrF: Here is the video, folks. Remember this was a surprise to everyone, including the amazing folks at Imagique Weddings.

This is just a short clip, so go to Imagique to get the whole video!

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Ok Stephen, ready for the lightning round? How many seasons of the Bachelor/Bachelorette have you actually watched?

SS: I have watched Jillian’s (obviously), Jake’s, Allie’s, Brad’s, and Ashely’s and night one of DeAnna’s season. I also watched two of her hometown dates to see what we were into for Michael’s hometown on Jill’s season.

So I have seen 5-3/10ths of the Bachelor/Bachelorette!

MrF: Your favorite DeAnna look: red carpet or grungy sweats/t-shirt?

SS: Oh man, I honestly think she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Yes she cleans up well for the red carpet, but I have to go with the sweats and t-shirt when we are alone together in our apartment.

MrF: Worst meal DeAnna has cooked?

SS: I honestly can’t think of one. She is a really good cook!

MrF: Which Pappas family member you would chose for a cross country road trip?

SS: T-Pap for sure…her older brother Thomas.

MrF: Secret male Bachelorette contestant crush.

SS: Graham Bunn…I know, I know

MrF: Secret female Bachelor contestants crush?

SS: DeAnna Pappas…

MrF: Ok, Mr Politically Correct, BESIDES DeAnna who is your favorite female contestant or Bachelorette?

SS: Okay, okay…I honestly really liked Jillian. She fit right in with our family and her and Michael really did seem to have something. I hope there is still something there between those two!

MrF: Your three favorite movies?

SS: The Matrix, Saving Private Ryan, Tommy Boy

MrF: Have you ever considered being on the Wipe Out TV show? You would be awesome.

SS: OMG…everyday! I would LOVE To be on Wipeout and/or Ninja Warrior. Let’s face it, they are the same show…

MrF: I understand you and your brother design board games. What was your favorite one?

SS: We do! Super nerdy, but very fun! My favorite game is called Spritual Warfare. The concept actually came from a series at our church about the supernatural that was awesome! It has a very unique game mechanic that combines elements from D&D, Ticket to Ride, and Settlers of Catan. We have prototyped the game and are hoping to have it published soon.

Ok, one for you Mr. Frostings!  How many seasons of the Bachelor/ette have you watched?

MrF: I have watched every single season of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, plus both seasons of Bachelor Pad. I guess its safe to say, I’m a fan.

When the first season started, I was going through a painful divorce and needed to see the romance and that love could work. It turns out that the show has not produced many successes with the final two. But, it’s the POSSIBILITY of finding true love that keeps me coming back. The show has changed since people have learned that it might be a stepping-stone to some sort of entertainment career. But, I think the casting is clever and the show does know what works. Every season is filled with great characters. The dream may have died, but the train wreck continues!

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I want to thank Stephen for taking the time to hang out with me and talk about his life, love and marriage. Thanks also to the amazing Brian Callaway at Callaway Gable for his beautiful photos and Daniel Boswell at Imagique for his awesome video. Special thanks to DeAnna Pappas Stagliano for sharing her husband with me for a short time!

Going Stag: Stephen Stagliano’s Wedding [Part 1]

Monday, January 9th, 2012

Let’s get one thing straight. This is not an interview. This is two guys (great ones, actually) talking weddings and marriage. A huge thanks to guest correspondent Earl Anderson (Mr. Frostings) and Stephen Stagliano for choosing us as the forum to publish this piece. The next time someone tells you that guys don’t care about weddings, direct them to this post. Photos are courtesy of Callaway Gable, please do not steal/crop!

Stephen Stagliano is quite a guy. If you’re not convinced, ask around. His former students in Santa Clarita, CA will tell you. So will his brother, Michael Stagliano. Michael was last season’s co-winner of Bachelor Pad and suitor of Jillian Harris on The Bachelorette. More importantly to Stephen, he is his twin, his best friend and was the best man at his wedding. Michael gave, what was in my opinion, the best wedding speech I have ever heard.  If that speech was exaggerated, then Stephen has me fooled. Humble, straightforward and sincere, Stephen is exactly what he appears to be.

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So, what could possibly draw this church going, unassuming man to the red carpet? Enter DeAnna Pappas.

DeAnna chased reluctant Bachelor, Brad Womack, all the way to the finale of The Bachelor, season 11, then was famously named The Bachelorette on The Ellen Show. When DeAnna’s final choice turned out to be more of a frog than a Prince, her journey brought her to the arms of our hero.

Married October 22nd 2011, DeAnna and Stephen have set out to prove that two very normal people can build a traditional and loving marriage in Hollywood…. and dance their butts off while doing it.

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Mr. Frostings: Being married is the natural result of getting married. Sounds like a no-brainer, but waking up married is still quite a shock to the system for many grooms. When did it hit you that all this wedding business was really just the beginning?

Stephen Stagliano: First of all, thank you for the kind words, Earl. That was a wonderful recap of my life these past few years. I was certainly happy to have you and Mrs. Frostings as part of that journey. I agree, Michael’s best man speech was one of the best I had ever heard and one of the happiest moments of my life…. next to marrying DeAnna of course.

Before answering your question I want to say “I LOVE being married”. I find that many cliché’s are true, the most important of which is that I feel complete having committed myself to the woman of my dreams. To answer your question directly, I realized that the wedding was just the beginning on our way TO the honeymoon…it’s a bit of a funny story.

When we arrived at the airport at 7:30am we went to the Delta check in counter for our 10am flight to Belize. When we ran my passport it did not scan correctly. Several years ago while back packing through Thailand it was damaged in a severe rainstorm (that is another good story). About 3 months prior to our airport check in DeAnna told me that I should get a new one. I reassured her that it would be fine as I had traveled several times with the same passport internationally, and the airlines would just type in the number off my passport once it did not scan. This was NOT the case at Delta as two months prior to our flight Delta changed their passport policy to no longer accept damaged passports of ANY kind….ooohh *&$%.

We joke around about it now, saying that DeAnna almost filed for divorce on the first day of our marriage, hahaha, but at the time it was awful.  In hindsight it ended up being a blessing in disguise. We went back to Serenbe and had a wonderful time with our family and friends, where we were able to unwind and reminisce about all of the happenings of our wedding. I was also very sick and was able to get to a wellness clinic the same day I got a new passport. In addition, Hurricane Rina was barreling towards the Belizean coast and we would have been in danger had we made it there when we were planned to arrive.

What a wonderful example of real marriage that we were given, literally on the first day of our lives together. I dare say our vows were put to the test, hahaha. I do not think I have ever seen DeAnna so mad, but everything worked out beautifully and we ended up having a safe, healthy, and un-belizable honeymoon.

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My questions to you, Mr. Frostings, is how long did it take you to settle in to your marriage with Leslie? By comparison, things are still fresh and new and fun for DeAnna and I right now, so I am wondering how long that lasts.

MrF: Next to falling asleep on your honeymoon, messing with a bride’s much-needed rest after a wedding is grounds for divorce!

Good groom question, by the way. Leslie and I are very lucky. We are both very affectionate, both very PDA, and both slow to anger. Since this is a second marriage for both of us, we appreciate what we have found together. I never leave the house without kissing her goodbye.  She calls my office when she wakes up. To answer your question directly, I believe that the love doesn’t fade over time, just our willingness to live it. I try to remember that love is an action. As long as I’m willing to live in our marriage, live in the love I feel for her, she will always feel it.

Your wedding process was a little different than most. Dealing with the press, sneaky little paparazzi, and demands of the Bachelor Family had to be difficult. Looking back, what was the most stressful part of the planning process?

SS: Wow, I love what you said. Love is an action. I am going to steal that if you don’t mind! I need to read the book you should write on love and marriage, hahaha.

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Our wedding process was a little out of the ordinary. It was strange how some expected stress was removed and problems appeared where we least expected them! A perfect example of this is our experience with you, Earl! Once we met with you and Leslie we knew we had nothing at all to worry about, which was so nice. Thanks to your recommendations, we had vendors reach out to us for photography, video, our flowers, and creating our invitations and other paper goods, which was wonderful. It turned out that all our vendors were wonderful! I think an added stress of wedding planning is simply choosing which vendors you are going to go with. We skipped right past that step by having an amazing wedding vendor (Fantasy Frostings) take care of us.

Ironically enough, it was the press that added on unexpected stress.  Several things stand out. I remember DeAnna and I could not “release” our engagement because at the time we were under contract with a production company to shoot a reality show with DeAnna, Michael, Holly and I called “Four Better or Worse.” That was really hard on us. DeAnna could not wear her ring out and we could only tell close family about our engagement.

Press was also a bit of an issue as we were not sure who to go with and what the best avenue would be. The Bachelor Family wanted to cover the wedding, but they were right in the middle of filming the next season with Ben so several of our friends from the show could not come.

The pinnacle of stress for our wedding with press was on the wedding day. We had discussed having security at our wedding, but never did I think paparazzi would come all the way to Atlanta and all the way to Serenbe for the photos. Low and behold four different guys showed up! To answer your question, this was the most stressful part for me. DeAnna was really upset and I was very angry. I actually sent my groomsmen out on Paparazzi Police Patrol to canvas the area!  The actual police came a few minutes later and found two other guys in the woods around our venue, but one still managed to elude them and get away with a few photos.  Crazy.

As I write this, I can’t help but realize that none of what I talked about was stress from wedding planning, but rather about the press. Hahaha. DeAnna and I ran in to a few stressors that are typical, like the wedding list and seating chart, but that is all. DeAnna did an unbelievable job and handled everything beautifully.

Earl, I had the privilege of being a guest at your wedding to Leslie and it was honestly one of my most favorite weddings. Not that this is a point of comparison, but I thought it would be an interesting point of conversation that where DeAnna and I chose to do the full on southern wedding extravaganza, you and Leslie had a simple back yard barbecue wedding. Both were wonderful. It calls into question, from the guy’s perspective, what are the common denominators to having a great wedding? I will let you answer first ;)

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MrF: The mythical “Great Wedding”, huh? You’ll have better luck finding The Great Pumpkin. A great wedding can only be found in hindsight. Today’s couples are unique in their own special ways. Our wedding was perfect for us. A backyard BBQ with friends and family was our perfect day.  Your wedding was all about family and friends too, but it also visualized you two as a couple perfectly. The key to making a great wedding for any couple is a great wedding planner. It needs to be someone you trust and someone with the empathy to feel your vision and the skill to make it a reality. I preach this to brides at every opportunity. If you want to enjoy your wedding day, there is no better investment.

Now that you are almost a wedding expert, what advice will you give your brother Michael when he begins to plan his big day?

SS: Oh man, that is a loaded question! I think my first piece of advice would be something for him to say to his wife… “What can I do to help?”

DeAnna loved when I offered to help. The reality is that the woman takes care of most of the preparations.  I was very involved in the seating chart (good for the man to do) and the DJ play list (great for a man to do). All other things I just offered to help when I could or offered my opinion/advice when it was welcomed and/or wanted.

The other piece of advice that I would offer to my brother is that he needs to be the rock and foundation of the whole production. I found myself saying things like “Everything is going to be fine.” “Everything is going to be beautiful and perfect.” “Everything will work out.” I think it is very easy for the brides to get caught in the trees and lose sight of the forest sometimes. It can be very beneficial for the groom to be calm, assertive, and have faith that everything will work out just fine.

Oh and one last thing…the bride is always right!

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I can’t think of a more appropriate place to leave part 1 than at “the bride is always right.” Give that statement a night to sink in and then come back tomorrow morning for the epic conclusion of Going Stag. Not that you should need any extra coaxing to do that, but we’ll be featuring video of Stephen and his groomsmen dancing at the reception. So, no excuses!

Jay Cutler is Engaged to Kristin Cavallari

Monday, April 25th, 2011

According to People Magazine, Chicago Bears quarterback Jay Cutler is engaged to Kristin Cavallari. Cutler proposed to the former ‘Laguna Beach’ star over the weekend while on vacation in Cabo San Lucas.

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Of course, one has to wonder if Cutler will fake a sickness once the wedding planning gets tough.

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Five Things I Care More About Than Prince William and Kate Middleton’s Wedding

Monday, November 22nd, 2010

A lot of people have asked me why we haven’t blogged about Prince William’s engagement to Kate Middleton yet. The reason is twofold. For starters, I’ve been too busy watching paint dry on my office wall. Also, when I have had spare time recently — I’ve been focusing on the following five things that I find much more interesting than any royal wedding.

sand-sculpting-championshipsThe World Championship of Sand Sculpting

I used to build some pretty mean sand castles back in the day, but I’ve got nothing on the participant’s in The World Championship of Sand Sculpting. This competition features solo artists and teams  from across the world competing for the title of Master Sand Sculptor. Sadly, this year’s tournament has already passed — so I’ll be staring at the clock for 10 months awaiting the beginning of next year’s contest in Federal Way, WA.

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‘The Happening’

It was the freakin’ trees!

tennis-ballWhy are tennis balls fuzzy?

I had to spend some time researching this one. The fuzz, commonly called felt, is a wool-like substance that keeps the ball from bouncing too high. It also allows the player to control the ball’s movement better because the racket can grip felt better than plain rubber. Fascinating stuff.

kendalville-indiana-policeThe Kendallville, Indiana Police Blotter

Small town news blotters are the best. Today, I threw a dart at a map and discovered Kendallville, IN. After reading their published police reports, I feel like I’ve lived there all my life. Oh look, A car-deer collision at 5:50 p.m. Thursday near S.R. 3 South and South Main Street resulted in no injuries to the driver, Jody G. Nasca, 50, of Kendallville. That’s Jody for ya!

Whatever happened to Jimmy Ray?

Who remembers this one-hit wonder from the 90’s? I certainly do. And I’ve certainly spent many a sleepless night deep in thought over what became of him. Did he get burnt out? Creative differences with his production team? Arrested? Dead? The world may never know.. and that is a crime!

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What about you? How much do you care (or not care) about the engagement and upcoming wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton?  Let us know in the comments section below.

Five Things I Care More About Than Chelsea Clinton’s Wedding

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

It’s true. I can barely contain my excitement boredom over Chelsea Clinton’s upcoming nuptials. Here are five things that I find much more interesting than Chelsea’s surprise Vera Wang Trip or who’s on (or not on) the guest list:

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The Politics of Mali

The Republic of Mali is a small African nation that borders Nigeria, Algeria and The Ivory Coast. Mali is divided into eight regions with each region having its own governor. The country has become pro-west in the years since they instituted a democratic system in 2002. This transition followed many years of political upheaval that had long threatened the stability of the country (on a side-note – Mali is landlocked and I ALWAYS find landlocked countries extremely interesting).

spying-on-neighborsMy Neighbors’ Work Schedule

I’ve been spying on my neighbors for about six months. I don’t suspect them of anything strange, I’m just bored. They both leave every morning at 7:15am. She returns for lunch around noon everyday except Thursday. He only comes home for lunch on Mondays.  They both arrive back home around 5:45pm except on Tuesdays when he gets home at 7:00pm. WHERE IS HE UNTIL 7 ON TUESDAYS?

ghostbusters-toyThe Whereabouts of my Peter Venkman Action Figure

From what I can recollect, I lost my Peter Venkman Ghostbusters toy around the time of my 9th birthday. I search for it every time I’m back at my parents’ house, but it’s nowhere to be found! I have a theory that my friend Jim Dibble stole it, but I can’t prove it. It’s depressing because I know exactly where my Egon, Ray, Winston and Stay-Puft figures are, but the set is not complete without Peter.

pocket-lintPocket Lint

Where does it come from? And why?

david-morris-whistlerDavid Morris, World Champion Whistler

David Morris is the world’s top whistler. He competes in whistling competitions around the world and has recorded three full length albums chock full of nothing but whistles. Don’t believe me? Take a listen here.

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What about you? How much do you care (or not care) about Chelsea Clinton’s wedding? Tell us in the comments section below.

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