Customizable You Are My World Heart Map ($23, Etsy). This beautiful and modern 16×20 print, which features a world map made of tiny red hearts, can be customized with your names and wedding or anniversary date to create a unique and sentimental gift.

Personalized Wide Cuff Bracelet ($22, TheManRegistry.com). This simple yet classic silver-plated bracelet, which can be engraved with a monogram or initial, is a go-to accessory she’ll wear for years to come.

Petite Antique Skeleton Key Necklace ($29, Etsy). Does she love vintage finds? This beautiful vintage skeleton key, which dangles from a feminine sterling silver chain with Swarovski pearls, is sure to please.

Personalized iPad Case ($36.95, TheManRegistry.com). Perfect for any iPad lover, this stylish black case features a four-position adjustable stand and a plaque on the front that can be engraved with her name or initials.

Personalized V.I.P. Luggage Tag ($20, TheManRegistry.com). Great for frequent fliers or the upcoming honeymoon, this classic luggage tag, which can be inscribed with a monogram, makes a perfect accessory for her travel bag.

Personalized Wine Cork Tray Kit ($50, RedEnvelope). Great for any wine lover, this solid oak serving tray holds about 100 corks, including one that comes with the kit that can be personalized. It’s topped with a Plexiglas cover and offers metal handles, making it perfect for serving and carrying.

Gilded Needlework Earrings ($38, Anthropologie). These gold-dipped lace stunners make a great addition to any jewelry addict’s collection—one she may even want to wear on the wedding day.

Steak Branding Iron ($34.95, TheManRegistry.com). Whether she’s a die-hard sports fan or loves to show off her school spirit, show her you’re her No. 1 fan with this NCAA steak branding iron.

Fresh Brown Sugar Affair Set ($50, Sephora). Pamper her with a relaxing at-home spa experience with this three-piece gift set, featuring Brown Sugar body polish, body cream and a lip treatment.

Personalized I Heart U Alphabet Pillow Cover ($59.95, RedEnvelope).  This pillow’s modern graphic text will show her just how you feel about her. Add your names at the bottom for an extra personal touch.

Congratulations on getting engaged! You’re the man. Now let me tell you what happens between now and your wedding date. A series of expensive decisions will be made about every single facet of your big day. And while your loving fiancee will seek your input and appear on the surface to run a very democratic decision-making process, in reality your measly opinion will matter very little and, even more importantly, you won’t really care!

Cream linens instead of white? Great! Kelly green instead of emerald for one of your wedding colors? Sure honey! Photobooth instead of portrait photographer? That’s what I was thinking too!

Don’t get me wrong. You should definitely care about your wedding…it will be the best day of your life. It’s just that the little details will matter soooo much more to her than most of them will to you, so you’ll go along to make her happy. Which is exactly what a good guy like you should do.  And, there are some decisions that you will for sure have a distinct position on.

Full bar or just beer and wine? FULL BAR! WE MUST HAVE A FULL BAR!

See what I mean? Another area where you should man up and have a voice is your registries. The reason? Unlike most of the wedding decisions, which are things you have to live with for one blurred, whirlwind day, your registry decides things that are a bit more permanent. Things that will clutter your house or apartment and, if you’re not careful, turn it into a bonified chick pad.

One solution is to make sure you pay close attention what she’s aiming that scan gun at and veto any gross violations, but another is to steer your girl toward registries that are more your speed. Most couples end up with around 3 registries these days. Leave all registry decisions up to her?  Enjoy your new matching pink towels and your new mango pitter.

This is why we’re such big proponents of alternative (to department store) registries. The Man Registry itself offers an awesome selection of unique gifts that appeal both sexes (and some that are just for you!). My company Foodie Registry lets wedding couples register for gift certificates to awesome restaurants. And there are a lot more options, from honeymoon registries to charity registries to adventure registries and more. The main thing is to make sure you research the options, see what appeals, and throw some alternatives in the mix. You’ll be happy you did.

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Ben Reid is co-founder of Foodie Registry, a wedding registry for gift certificates to the best restaurants in Chicago, New York, San Francisco, and Denver. You can connect further with them on Twitter and Facebook.

We know how quickly bills can pile up while shopping for your wedding. So in addition to our permanent offer of free shipping on orders over $149, we’ve created a coupon code that’s good for 10% off your total order. The code is 2012groomsmen and should be used at checkout (valid through March 9, 2012).To learn more or purchase the gifts below, simply click the image or link and you’ll be taken over to our shopping site at TheManRegistry.com. Cheers, grooms!

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Custom "Man Cave" Canvas Print

We kick things off with our high-quality, fully customized man cave canvas print. Measuring 14″ x 18″ x 1 1/8″ and featuring your choice of golf, football, billiards or baseball theme, this is the missing piece to your best man’s wall.

Just right for: The stressed-out guy who likes to slip away for a few hours to watch the big game or have drinks in the comfort of his designated man area.

Personalized Ironsides Cigar Humidor

Our premium cigar humidor is second to none. Constructed from heavy-duty black wood, this piece comes complete with a humidifier and hygrometer — so you know that properly caring for your cigars won’t be a problem.

Just right for: Fans of Boston Legal. What a better way to end a day then smoking a stogie with your best friend (just like Alan Shore and Denny Crane).

Chalkboard Beer Mug

Our original creation, the chalkboard mug, was recently named as one of Entrepreneur Magazine’s top handmade gifts. Each mug comes with one piece of chalk. After a few drinks at the reception, your boys may need some help identifying whose mug is whose.

Just right for: The guy that’s always losing track of his beer.

Groomsmen Cufflinks

Nobody will have trouble distinguishing the members of your wolf-pack because they’ll be sporting these groomsman cufflinks. Each set comes in a gift box that can be engraved with a personal message or initials. We also carry versions for the best man and ushers.

Just right for: A truly universal present, these shiny pieces will be ideal for every member of your group.

Engraved Pilot Quartz Watch by Speidel

Truly a breathtaking watch, our Pilot Quartz Watches are the cream of the crop. There are two versions to choose from: black band with black dial OR brown band with yellow dial. Either way,  the recipient is a winner.

Just right for: The classic gentleman in your wedding party.

Single Letter Western Steak Brand

What a cool item! Our custom steak brand is available for every letter of the alphabet. It works just like the cattle brands that you’ve probably seen in TV and in the movies. Our only warning: don’t try to give yourself a tattoo. This baby burns!

Just right for: The “grillmaster” on your shopping list

Executive Leather Flask Set

He’ll be feeling quite executive after receiving this leather flask set. The set comes complete with an oz. flask, funnel and two shot glasses. Not to mention that free engraving is offered. What a deal!

Just right for: The businessman who likes to set up a “bar away from home” in his office.

Personalized iPad Case

If your guys don’t own an iPad or tablet  yet, it’s only a matter of time before they do. Our Personalized iPad Case is slick, durable and stylish. Free engraving is offered so that personal touch can be added.

Just right for: The techies in your wedding party.

Bluegrass Bourbon Barrel

This new item is already a hit. Blend and age bourbon, vodka, wine and rum from home with the Bluegrass Bourbon Barrel. You’ll receive the 2 liter barrel, stand and instructions in addition to being able to engrave a custom name or message on the front.

Just right for: Your buddy who’s going to need a new hobby while your on your honeymoon.

Men's Grooming Kit

Are your groomsmen frequent travelers? Our Men’s Grooming Kit is the next best thing to frequent flier miles. The distressed leatherette case can either be stamped with the recipient’s initials or you can choose to have a gold plate engraved (which you can place anywhere you want on the pouch).

Just right for: The guy that you’re constantly having to remind to “clean up” for the big day.

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We’d love to hear your thoughts on our gift ideas. Leave a comment below telling us which item is your favorite and why. Furthermore, you can check out our full shop of groomsmen gifts as well as our Pinterest board for more ideas. Cheers, fellas!

LSU Tigers "Man Cave" Sign

 LSU Tigers Personalized “Man Cave Sign” – This handmade sign will look great hanging in the den or man cave. Featuring the Tigers famous logo, it lets everyone know that cold drinks, good snacks and great friends are on tap for every LSU match! [$36 @ The Man Registry].

LSU Floor Lamp

LSU Floor Lamp – Show your fellow Tiger fans the light when they come over for the game. This full-size lamp is nice enough for the living room and “sportsy” enough for the basement. [$200 @ Memory Company]

LSU Jumbo Grill Rack

LSU 1311 Jumbo Grill Rack – Hosting the next tailgate party? With our Tigers Grill Topper, you can brand the school logos into steaks, burgers, chicken or whatever else you find to throw on the grill. [$44.95 @ The Man Registry].

LSU National Champions Banner

LSU National Champions Banner – Looking to decorate the exterior of your home in time for next season? This 28″ x 40″ outdoor flag features the Tiger logo and all of the years where LSU have been football champions. [$27.99 @ LSU Tiger Planet].

LSU Koozie Set

LSU Koozie Set – Tiger fans love their drinks cold. With this stainless steel can holder set, this won’t be a problem. The koozies come in a set, so you’ll have one for the groom and one for the bride. [$24.95 @ the Man Registry]

We’re also happy to offer 10% off these items to our readers. To redeem savings, simply use the discount code tmrholiday10 while checking out over on The Man Registry site. Additionally, all orders over $149 receive free ground shipping.

Bluegrass Bourbon Barrel

10.) Bluegrass Bourbon Barrel – We introduced you guys to this dandy creation back in August when we interviewed bourbon expert Jeff Ames. The magic of the Bluegrass Barrel is that it allows the user to learn about the aging process and perfect his/her own blend from home. There are no expensive lessons involved because the kit comes with everything you need to know to get started. It can even be engraved with the recipient’s initials. If you’re not a fan of bourbon, you can also create wine, rum and tequila in the barrel. [$69.95]

Chalkboard Beer Mug

9.) Chalkboard Beer Mug – When it’s not moonlighting as our top selling groomsmen gift, our chalkboard mug [a TMR original] makes for an affordable and creative holiday gift. Whether you’re looking for a white elephant gift, something for your boss or just a fun mug for Uncle Frank to drink eggnog out of, we think this baby will do the trick. And yes, it does come with chalk. [$19.95] above photo credit destination wedding & honeymoon magazine

The Collegiate Sportula

8.) The Collegiate Sportula – The Sportula is exactly what it sounds like. It combines team spirit with a spatula, giving tailgate grill masters a brand new toy to add to their repertoire. And that’s not even the best part! The end of the Sportula is actually a bottle opener – because what guy doesn’t like to crack open a few cold ones as he’s manning the grill? With over 80 schools available, we’re sure that you’ll be able to find the team of your choice. [$29.95]

Apple Gift Pack (iPhone Cufflinks & iPad Case)

7.) Personalized iPhone Cufflinks & iPad Case – Our Apple Gift Pack features two items that every Apple fan needs. Our iPhone Cuff Links are ideal for work or more formal affairs and come in an engraved case. The iPad Case features a stand that turns any place into a work environment. It too can be personalized on the plaque that’s attached to the front. These two items should certainly be on the wish list for any man-on-the-go. [$24.95-$36.95]

Sweetwood Cattle Co. Ranch Hand Gift Pack

6.) Sweetwood Cattle Co. Ranch Hand Gift Pack – Last month, we posted our interview with Ryan Wood, the brainchild of Under Armour & founder of Sweetwood Cattle Co. Ryan’s ranch produces some of the finest beef that this writer has ever tasted. We were limited to including one Sweetwood gift pack in this guide, and we decided to go with the Ranch Hand. This pack includes two ribeyes, two flank steaks and one sausage link. Trust me, you’ve got to try this stuff to believe it. All orders are shipped in dry ice from a USDA approved facility – freshness guaranteed. [$75.00]

Remote control cooler

5.)  RC Cooler – Another popular year-round gift is the Remote Control Cooler. Perfect for entertaining or showing off in his man cave, this baby is powered by one 9-volt battery and six C batteries. It will run on any surface (although faster on concrete or hardwood), features a control handle that’s shaped like a bottle cap and holds a 12 pack along with ice. Yes folks, it doesn’t get any more awesome than this! Available in blue and black. [$79.99]

Personalized gifts for the music lover

4.) Personalized Drumsticks & Engraved Guitar Pick – Have a music enthusiast on your shopping list this year? Surprise him with a personalized piece of equipment that he can put to use or proudly display in his jam room. In fact, you may want to order a few backup sets for his groupies. [$21.95 - $57.95]

Engraved Rawlings Baseball Bat

3.) Engraved Rawlings Baseball Bat – As the calendar turns to a new year, baseball fans begin to get excited for the beginning of spring training. If the man in your life falls into this category, our engraved Rawlings bats makes for a perfect gift idea. With up to three lines of personalization allowed, he can proudly display the bat in his office or man cave. [$59.99]

Personalized Storus 2-in-1 Money Clip/Card Holder

2.) Personalized Storus 2-in-1 Money Clip/Card Holder – From the leading name in money clips, comes our top-selling Storus cash and card holder. Take it from a guy, we don’t like carrying a big chunky wallet around in our pocket. It’s much more comfortable (and stylish) to use a slick money clip. Constructed from stainless steel and top grain leather, this beauty is available in black, brown and red. [$42.95]

Engraved Barware Collection

1.) Engraved Glass Pitcher & Beer Tankards – If you’re shopping for an amateur bartender or just a good ‘ol fashion beer lover, you can’t do much better than these two pieces of personalized glassware. Our 60oz. glass pitcher and set of four tankards can each be engraved with one initial. They’ll bit a hit the next time you’re hosting poker night or having the family over for a holiday dinner. [$34.95-$64.95]

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Which gift suggestion is your favorite? What other items make great gifts for men? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below. Cheers!