OneWed’s Local Flavor: Should You Invite Your Ex?
Guest Blogger Profile: Jennifer Napier of OneWed.com
For some people, there’s a clear line between an ex-girlfriend and a friend that you used to date. For others, that line is a little blurry. This can lead to problems when trying to put together your guest list, especially if the girl you used to date is now dating another friend, or if your fiancée’s ex is part of your larger group of friends.
At OneWed, we put together a little list of questions to ask yourself before making the decision.
1. What are your motivations? If there’s any part of you that’s thinking, “She’ll be sorry now,” don’t invite her. Also, think pretty seriously about whether or not you’re actually ready to get married.
2. Is she a teary drunk? If there’s any chance that she’ll start weeping about the one that got away at the reception, don’t invite her.
3. What does your fiancée say? No matter what you think, the final call on this should be your fiancées, the same is true of any of her exes, you have veto power.
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Tags: Bride's Advice, drama, Ex-Girlfriend at Wedding, Wedding Guest List
